Talk with & listen to your child. It’s important to make eye contact and use gentle touch when communicating with your child more info
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Talk with & listen to your child. It’s important to make eye contact and use gentle touch when communicating with your child more info Show kids how tasks should be done. Kids are imitators and they do much better when they are shown how to do something. more info Set the bar high for your kids. Don’t expect perfection, but do expect them to do their best. more info Take time to listen to your toddler’s answers. Toddlers have strong opinions and interesting ideas about the world. more info There is no such thing as allowing your kid to play with your phone ‘just once.’ more info Set clear limits & enforce consistently. Child needs to know what you expect. But be sure to have time/energy to carry through more info Avoid over-reacting, raising your voice, or offering false threats. Help your child gain control & trust in your parenting. more info Avoid name calling and labeling kids, ‘Hyper’, ‘Trouble maker’ or ‘problem child’ Labels don’t help a child’s self-esteem more info Many parents swear by a warning system to get tots to move from place to place, try a 5 or 10 minute countdown. Just as you encourage him to triumph, let him learn to fail, too, and then be there for him with hugs and encouragement. Making little, things routine (ie:singing a song@bedtime or pancakes on the weekends) turns them into special traditions. Actively listen to your children to find out what’s causing their behavior and help them through difficult moments. Remember to praise & encourage child for appropriate behavior. Rule of thumb is to give 4 positive comments for 1 reprimand. Empathizing, instead of minimizing feelings, helps recover more quickly from disappointment & teaches to regulate emotions. Eye contact tells child she is important & that you are focusing on her. It also encourages her to make eye contact with you. Save ‘No’ for ‘red flag’ moments when safety/health at risk, give immediate response when tot crosses the line. http://bit.ly/PjI7YA Interacting with just one other child is a big deal for a toddler – inviting more than that may make it impossible for them all to have a good time. Get your kids involved in household duties at an early age. Research suggests that kids who are involved in household chores from an early age tend to be happier and more successful. Practice and hone your skills at being non-judgmental. Start labeling feelings and avoid name-calling. Say, "he seems angry," rather than, "what a jerk." When your kids are whiny or crying, saying things like, "you seem sad," will always be better than just asking them to stop. Depriving kids of the feelings they’re experiencing will only drive them underground and make them stronger. |
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